Last Day of Year 2016

Saturday, December 31, 2016

Bismillah.
Assalamualaikum everyone :)


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Gratitude


Today is 31st of December 2016. 
I'll be turning to a new age tomorrow, in sha Allah.
An increase in age attached itself to a parallel increase in responsibilities :)
Anyhow, I am thankful for the passing years.
Hoped to be a better person, not by the passing years, but by the passing days.

As a reflection to us, I wanna share two verses from Qur'an;



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Perhaps you hate a thing but it is good for you, and perhaps you loved a thing but it is bad for you. Allah knows, whilst you know not (Al Baqarah; verse 216)


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They plan and Allah plans, and Allah is the best of planners (Al Anfal; verse 30)


Another year passed, and I believe we all have our plans, aims and goals that we strived to achieve along the year. 
However, when things didnt go as we plan, we must remind ourselves that sometimes things are not fully in our control. We should learn the beauty of acceptance. But, that doesnt mean that we give up. 
Nope. 
It's just a way to coax ourselves and to believe that Allah knows what He is doing.

And if we knew what the future would be like, we may choose the same situation we are in now :)

In short, always instill these two elements in our daily life: Sabr and Shukr; and believe me your life will be so tranquil even when the storm hits.

May Allah bless us in the coming years.
May Allah guide us to the right path.
May Allah help us in becoming better Muslims.
May Allah bless us with infinite sustenance.
May Allah grant us the best spouses.
May Allah re-unite us in Paradise.
Say Ameen :)








Bahagia dengan Memberi

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Assalamualaikum semua :)

Hari ni hari Jumaat. Jumuah mubarakah.
Kalau dok rumah, anis paling suka hari jumaat. Biasa kalau hari jumaat, mak masak special sikit.
Alhamdulillah. dan hari jumaat ni dia ada aura tersendiri :)
ye lah, penghulu segala hari kan.

Sempena hari Jumaat ni, anis nak kongsi sikit bagaimana untuk rasa bahagia dengan memberi :)

Biasa tak dengar pepatah (ke ada hadis ya?), tangan yang di atas lebih baik dari tangan yang di bawah?

Dulu2, masa lower form selalu hafal pepatah ni dalam bahasa arab sebab biasa masuk exam. hee

Okay, meh kita pikir jap. Kenapa orang yang memberi pulak rasa bahagia? mestilah orang yang menerima tu lagi bahagia. betul tak?

Contoh: anis bagi kat awak hadiah(hadiah anis biasa simple je; buku. hehe. sebab a book is a gift that you can open again & again :p)
Awak rasa gembira tak dapat hadiah tu? mestilah kan :D

Tapi, macam mana anis pun nak rasa gembira dan bahagia? dah la kena keluarkan duit beli buku, kena balut lagi kalau rajin, hihi??

Macam mana tu?
Betul ke orang memberi ni lebih baik daripada menerima??




Kunci nak bahagia waktu memberi ialah KASIH SAYANG :)

Ya, kasih sayang tu lah kuncinya. 

Nah,anis bagi situasi;

Cth: seorang ayah pergi kerja dan masa pergi kerja tu ternampak baju yang cantik dan comel sesuai untuk anak perempuannya. ayah tu terus beli baju tu dan tak sabar2 nak balik kerja nak hadiahkan baju tu buat anak dia. 

Dalam situasi ni, ayah sebagai orang yang memberi dan beliau rasa bahagia bila beli baju untuk anaknya. Sebab apa dia boleh ada rasa macam tu? sebab adanya kasih sayang :)

Gitu la lebih kurang :)

Wallahua'lam

Tips Menjelang Exam

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Bismillah.

Kalau tak silap final exam mula esok di UIA untuk semester ni.

In sha Allah, petang ni nak share DUA tips nak exam yang anis praktikkan :)
Tips biasa je, tapi semua orang boleh buat.

1. Belajar dalam keadaan berwudhuk

- Biasakan diri untuk belajar dalam keadaan berwudhuk
- Tak semestinya waktu nak exam je buat, boleh jadikan satu rutin buat diri sendiri 
- Bila dah biasa belajar dalam keadaan berwuduhuk, kita akan rasa sangat bersalah dan tak boleh belajar kalau belum ambik wudhu'. Serius.
- Lagipun, kita digalakkan untuk sentiasa dalam keadaan berwudhu'. Kalau tak silap, ada hadis pasal ni.


2. Banyakkan baca Qur'an

- Yang ni, anis dah banyak kali share sebelum ni, lagi banyak kita baca Qur'an, lagi mudah urusan kita sehari-hari
- Cuma, kadang2 kita tak perasan benda ni
- Sempatkan baca Qur'an walaupun semuka setiap kali selepas solat
- Mula sikit2 dulu, lama2 kita sendiri dah terbiasa dan jadi rutin in sha Allah
- Jangan rasa masa kita terbazir dengan baca qur'an. Itu salah.
- Dan jangan rasa, kita kena cepat sebab banyak lagi tak ulangkaji. Ni salah juga.


Semoga bermanfaat :)

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Announcement 📣📣

Monday, December 19, 2016

Assalamualaikum fellow readers ☺

I just wanna tell you that i have created another blog dedicated to my business, Mary Jardin Natural & Organic Skincare :)

It took me about a day to pick the theme and arrange the layout and write few introductory posts and unending meticulous jobs. Hehe

It just feels great to be able to do that :D
Personal satisfaction. Alhamdulillah.

You can access the blog at this address :

simplygorgeousmj.blogspot.com


Now, i have three blogs to juggle with. Hehehe
The other one is on my other half;  books <3

Hope to write regularly . 
In sha Allah :)

Till then.  Wassalam.  

You are The One

Thursday, December 15, 2016


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I thought of this before over a million times Who would've ever thought that it would be our time? I just know it, 'cause you're the one
It ain't a selfish love, when I'm with you You remind me of Allah, and so I know it's true I'll just say it: you are the one Won't you be my BFF (best friend forever) and ever? Won't you be my partner after this world? We'll see it, when we believe it together Dreams are meant to be, 'cause you're the one for me I never thought that I would ever feel this way I ask Allah to bless you every single day I'll just say it, 'cause you're the one And when times are tough, and we've got the world to see Standing right beside you is where I want to be I just know it: you are the one Won't you be my BFF (best friend forever) and ever? Won't you be my partner after this world? We'll see it, when we believe it together Dreams are meant to be, 'cause you're the one for me I prayed about this just over a million times Who would ever thought that I could call you mine? I just know it, 'cause you're the one And when there's gray in our hair and we've not much to do I want to spend the rest of my days with you Oh don't you know it? You are the one, you are the one Oh won't you be the one?

-RAEF

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For those who are getting married soon :)
Since this school holidays are packed with marriages :p
have a blissful one, guys
May Allah bless you all
And, do not despair from His promise
Good women are for good men and vice versa
May Allah bless us with righteous spouses
Ameen :)

Mary Jardin

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

Bismillah.

Alhamdulillah. Semalam ada live sharing Dr Maryam pasal Mary Jardin. Terbuka kepada semua, agen mahupun bukan agen.

Sharing sekejap je, dalam 40 minit gitu, tapi banyak input yang Dr. Maryam kongsikan :)

Anis akan bagitau ringkasan atau 'gist' yang anis dapat daripada perkongsian santai tu. 
Sape2 nak tengok, boleh ke FB anis ye :)

1. FOKUS
-Bila kita nak berniaga, kita kena belajar untuk fokus
-Fokus perhatian, tenaga, masa dan duit untuk buat benda yang kita nak buat tu
-Bila fokus ni lari, kita pun susah nak dapat hasil yang terbaik
-Cth: Kalau kita berniaga online, kita jual banyak produk, tudung, kerepek, produk kecantikan.
-Sekejap ada orang pm nak tanya harga tudung, sekejap orang nak beli kerepek
-Jadi, fokus kita dah lari kat situ
-Sebab tu, bagi anis BIG WHY tu penting :D

2. ADA MENTOR
-Mentor atau orang yang kita boleh rujuk ni sangat penting
-Yang anis suka pasal MJ ni, selalu ada direct coaching dan training dari Dr Maryam dan suami, Dr.al Athiq
-Dan yang penting, apa yang orang ajar, kita buat. Orang ajar, kita buat, kita dapat hasil, kita gembira
-Kalau orang ajar sebanyak mana sekalipun, kalau tak buat, takde lah hasilnya

3. OFFER VALUES
-Orang suka kalau kita bagi 'values' kat diorang
-Cth: sabun ni kalau pakai boleh hilanglan jerawat
-Cth: tudung ni kalau kita pakai sebab buatkan kita nampak cantik, menutup aurat
-Orang bukan beli tudung tu sebab benda tu tudung, tapi sebab beli tudung buatkan dia nampak cantik. Gituu :p

Orait. Tu je la yang anis nak share. Ada banyak lagi. Kalau nak dengar sendiri, pergi bukak link dekat FB anis. 

Kalau nak tau banyaaak lagi, meh join team kami :)


Planning

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Assalamualaikum.

I was thinking to share with you, fellow readers about something related to.. emm, what should i call it? Achievement.. not really.

It's more like an accomplishment. Is it so?

Oh, i think the right word would be, 

" all the things that occured to us are in the hands of Allah Almighty. Allah knows what is the best and what is not, for us "

Am about to turn one fourth of century real soon, it makes me reflect more of all the passing years and the incidents.

I wish to share the best i could, and the best soul to digest it is me, myself :)

In sha Allah, i will start writing, soon. 

One last thing for today is, 

take a moment in each day, to reflect all the blessings from Allah and say 'alhamdulillah' :)

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First Semester

Saturday, December 10, 2016
* I was browsing through my laptop when i found this notes. Wrote it long time ago. 

Bismillah.

Sem I 14/15 (Feb – Jun 2015)

Semester started early February. In the first two weeks,I occupied Fit’s compartment(squatting to be exact), because there was no room available and i was in the waiting list. Got a call from STADD and i was placed at Mahallah Halimah which was in my liking. Alhamdulillah. But, have to rent the room for about two weeks, until i got my matric no. and my illegal status will be cleared, in early March. Its okay, so long i am occupying my own private place, and not squatting somewhere which was not convenient and afraid of bothering my friend.

Oh yeah, academically; i was struggling with Advanced Quantitative Method (AQM) course which was a course on spss application, and was entirely new and fresh for me. Nope. It was not learning how to key in data or how the functions in spss work. It was an application class. All my classes in the first semester started at 6pm, for three hours. And it was a challenging fortnight for me, returning to mahallah every night feeling uneasy and uncomfortable especially after AQM classes. Plus, with the illegal status with no matric no. proved some form of difficulties , in a more positive word, challenging. Why? Because i cant access the portal and i’taleem but i am thankful to my classmates for copying the class materials for me. Yes, it wasnt that difficult actually, just need to be more friendly 

Alright, that part is settled.

Moving to the next month, March; second week. I was online in the early morning, at about 2 a.m when I heard some men voices outside , and that was unusual. I continued my work when suddenly there’s a knock on the door. Hmm. Other roomates were sound asleep and it turned out to be a woman security guard @ iium auxilliary police? I dont know. She was asking for a car with a certain plate number. Okay. I knew. It was Farah’s. She asked me to call her. 

My first impression; farah could have parked her car somewhere illegal @ could be someone hitting her car, the security had to call her to clear things up. Still, there was some weird feeling because it was midnight, why cant wait for the daytime? Then, we went out to the garage area and waiting for us, a bunch of men securities. That was unusual too. 

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And to make it more weird, a sister of no-where, saying that she had farah’s brother on the phone line. Farah and I were.. looking at each other with no clues. The securities surrounding us said, be patient. And, a senior security talked to farah, confirming that car with the plate number was hers, and released the news. It was farah’s dad. Al Fatihah. He passed away that night, and farah couldnt be contacted through her mobile. She slept early that night and her mobile was in silent mode. The family members tried to contact her in many ways and at last through IIUM offices. That explained everything. Farah packed up lightly and went to the airport for her dad’s funeral the following day, on Friday.

The very next day, I got an accident. It was late in the evening, in front of Sayyidina Hamzah Stadium, I was riding my bike heading to Mahallah Safiyyah , just after rain stopped bringing together 2 sets of chickenchops for dinner. I still remember how my bike was swirling and plunged me onto the road surface and bloods pouring down the cheeks. 

Concurrent to that event, me and Farah, was absent from classes for three weeks including a week semester break. Actually , I went to two or three classes in the second week after the accident but with the help of some friends fetching me to-and-fro the mahallah and class. Farah wasnt there to see my swollen face and my inability to walk due to the accident. The inability to walk or to move my hands were a slap for me, to be more grateful to Allah SWT. 

In the end, both of us missed our classes, and I accept it as a small test from Allah SWT to us, and I hope we passed the test with flying colours. In sha Allah.