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| i want someone look at me and say, because of you i dont give up. |
At schools, if you are in the examination year (UPSR, PMR SPM) you will have to attend loads of seminars and motivational talks hahahha; which i enjoyed.
I consider myself a motivated person (hihi), whenever i attend such talks; it will boost me even more. But, there's a thing i noticed. That feeling or booster just dont follow you back home. It stayed in you only until the talk last -_-.
Hence, at 17 years old, i drew a conclusion that the best motivator in the wide world is none other than OURSELVES. We cant actually depend on others to make something really work. It may help along the way, of course but in the end, IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU. And, i hold to this until today, which is true :)
With that, i turned to reading, helped me a huge lot in moulding who i was, am and who i would be. Reading feeds the mind and helped you stay on track and do not lose along the way. A reader isnt the same who doesnt read, a point i always stressed on the students.
HOW I MOTIVATE MYSELF?
1. Inner speech
- i talk with myself a lot about everything. i believe in subconscious mind and trained myself to be positive and coax myself (what a pity girl :p) if unwanted things happen, which is normal in everyday life.
2. Read books
- i just realised that the books i read in my campus days affected how i conduct myself in life. Reading does bring you a long way, so go read something guys. Feed your mind. Reading also makes me think and understand things faster. The more you read, the faster is the pace in reading.
3. Write my goals
- i always look forward to write my goals, especially when new year comes. This year, i went somewhere comfy, ordered hot coffee, brought a book and a planner - and i wrote my goals of the year. This, i do every year consistently.
* alhamdulillah, the first goal i wrote got realised last February :)
* alhamdulillah, the first goal i wrote got realised last February :)
Okay, i think three is enough for now :D
* dont misunderstood okay, this doesnt mean you should stop going to motivational talks. i still do, but bear in mind - it is only you who can make it happen.
See you soon assalamualaikum.
